Some people see their partners as a reflection of themselves. They want to mirror their partners' actions and behavior. Does it actually happen that way? Of course not. Sometimes, a shadow of doubt creeps into our minds about whether it’s a true soulmate or an alien in disguise.

The author of this book examines the relationship between a man and a woman and offers a solution to misunderstandings and strains. It’s quite simple: an acceptance of each other's differences.

Let's imagine a story that would resonate with the book’s title – “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” So, there are males and females living on these planets, unaware of each other's existence. Suddenly, Martians discover a previously unknown planet and make an expedition to it. They are welcomed with open arms and love of the locals and respond similarly. It is a perfect harmony. But one day, their love fades. When both travel to Earth together, they get struck by selective amnesia. They believe they are inhabitants of the same planet, having forgotten their origins.

How is it expressed? "He never listens to what I tell him!" It's common enough to hear this from women, isn't it? That's the Venusian nature of women: to alleviate her negative feelings, she needs to process them with someone who will support and listen to her. That's why a woman relies on a man. But the man doesn't want to listen to her; he’s just eager to take her problems and solve them. For him, it's a form of support for his partner. Yet this isn't what a woman would typically appreciate. The man, meanwhile, expects praise and admiration for it. Without proper approval, he feels rejected. What is the lesson to be learned from this? Men should carefully listen to their women.

Venusian women find it right to be there for their men during difficult times, offering encouragement. It's hard for them to understand that Martians tend to distance themselves to protect their partner from needless stress. They usually seek a private place to process everything. Indeed, it's hard to accept, but it’s still necessary. Your desire to be present may be rejected, and advice for personal growth will make you feel insecure.

However, even these two approaches to dealing with stress can take some time. The important thing is that by learning to listen to a partner, the man will be able to come out of his shell willing to provide help.