Sometimes, we don't even realize how much our self-image affects our happiness. Of course, we hear almost everywhere that our thoughts determine our future, but for some reason, we don't want to change our perception of ourselves. But if you feel that disbelief in yourself prevents you from being happy, here are some steps to start working with it.

First, realizing and acknowledging the problem is the beginning of its solution. Therefore, you should find out what exactly makes you underestimate yourself. Affirmations can help you fight this power of insecurity. For example, one man was concerned with a lack of faith in himself. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, the author and an American Protestant clergyman, advised him to repeat an important phrase that can change his attitude: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Even if these words were alien to him at first, he had faith in his eyes when he heard them for the first time.

There can be many reasons not to believe in yourself. They can come from childhood, like social status, appearance, or the family’s financial situation. For example, one executive needed help with a talented but unreliable employee who couldn't keep sensitive information to himself. After digging deeper, it turned out he talked too much because he felt inferior to his well-educated, wealthy colleagues. To impress them, he shared industry secrets he shouldn't have. Understanding his insecurity, the employer guided him to see his worth in business and helped him learn to keep things confidential. With this support, the employee became more reliable and valuable to the company.

All cases come down to the fact that you have to believe because faith is the key not only to God but also to yourself. Now, let's look at some tips you should follow so your confidence does not leave you.

First, imagine yourself in the future with everything you've ever dreamed of as your thoughts materialize. And when you want to think that you are a failure, change your focus to achievements and remember that you are unique. Secondly, don't overestimate the difficulties in your life and perceive them objectively. Learn a few affirmations to repeat every day: "If God is for us, who is against us?" and "I am in God's hands." Remember that you get your strength from Him. And thirdly, don't be afraid to ask for help to assess your abilities properly and finally begin to realize your value.