People are fully responsible for the decisions that shape their lives. There’s a mentality that implies that individuals who are commonly part of a marginalized group often feel helpless and follow victimhood. Besides, they tend to accuse others of the events happening in their life. It’s high time to break this circle.

Everyone deserves to feel independent, successful, and satisfied, but it requires some effort. Firstly, it would be good to realize your strong sides and how to use them, which may take some time. You need to give yourself the authority to be the CEO of your life. Taking responsibility will help to shape your values and fundamental principles step by step. You may derive satisfaction from caring for your family, sharing your experience with others, volunteering, etc.

Eric Thomas, the author of *You Owe You,* is famous for his passionate motivational speeches that became popular through YouTube. He is a highly requested and beloved speaker among pro athletes and celebrities. Thomas has had his share of life difficulties that made him who he is today. He turned from a troublesome homeless youngster into the boss of his own life. Family trauma, segregation, and limited opportunities haven’t interfered with his way to success. After meeting a local pastor who inspired him, Thomas decided to take control of his life rather than be a victim.

According to Thomas, you must start your improvement by realizing you are the only one responsible for your life. The pattern of seeing yourself as a victim of a situation can make you your worst enemy, as you don’t feel brave enough to change anything.

Be a master of your successes and failures, and admit that you can write your story as you want. You also need discipline to manage your routine better. Create the timetable, the structure, which will turn your life into a system functioning efficiently.

Another part of victim mentality is believing that you are completely alone on your path. Acknowledge that you require appropriate surroundings that will give the necessary motivation and a helping hand. Look around, and you will notice the support of those who also want you to succeed. It will provide you with more strength to keep going.