Love is an integral and natural part of every person's life. We all want somebody next to us who will love and appreciate us. And we also want to give someone our love. But unfortunately, even though we all want it, not everyone succeeds. Many people in today's world experience numerous troubles related to romantic relationships.

In the past, the choice of a partner was much more limited than it is now. Usually, this choice was dictated by the place of your birth and your social and property status. In the modern world, these conditions do not play a critical role. Moreover, today, we have more opportunities and choices when searching for a partner than ever before. For example, thanks to the Internet, we can get to know a person even on the other side of the world. In addition, there are many dating sites and applications where you can find your soulmate.

However, has this abundance of choice and freedom made it easier for us to find the right partner? Unfortunately, it is more likely no than yes. People continue to ask themselves numerous questions: Where to look for love? How do you understand that this partner is right for you? How do you build a healthy and happy relationship?

Logan Ury, the author of the book and an experienced practicing psychologist, believes that stereotypes prevent us from finding love. After watching romantic movies and series, most of us imagine relationships as sweet surprises every day, dates with flowers, and serenades in the moonlight. Of course, these moments are expected to be in a romantic relationship, but they don't make up 100% of it. Successful and happy relationships, both heterosexual and homosexual, require a lot of work, which not everyone wants to do.

Sometimes, our decisions become obstacles to happiness in love because humans are irrational beings. Nevertheless, there is a way out! A behaviorist who studies the decision-making process can help with this.