Our lives nowadays seem to be nonstop, with our smartphones buzzing constantly and our schedules packed with different activities. Despite all this, we find ourselves wondering why we aren't as productive as we could be.

Two powerful forces explain our perpetual busyness and endless distractions: the "Busy Bandwagon" and the "Infinity Pools." The "Infinity Pools" represent the endless content and distractions surrounding us — from apps to emails to social media. These have become the default setting in our culture, at work, and on our devices. How often do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through your social media?

On the other hand, the Busy Bandwagon tells us that to succeed, we must constantly keep up with the fast pace of life. It pushes us to use every second of our day for productivity. However, this leads to our calendars being packed, leaving little room for meaningful personal moments.

To find your way out of this and find more meaning in life, it's crucial to make some decisions. First, we must identify what truly matters to us. Then, we must figure out how to gather the energy to pursue those things and use our time more intentionally. By avoiding this chaotic trap of busyness and distractions, we can make space for activities that truly bring us joy. Imagine having more time for a cozy family dinner or finally learning how to play tennis.

It's entirely doable to reduce distractions, reclaim our time, and live in the present moment. But breaking free from the grip of the Busy Bandwagon and Infinity Pools requires more than only productivity and willpower. It involves mastering essential skills and making deliberate choices to prioritize what truly matters.