How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
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How to Stop Worrying and Start Living

by Dale Carnegie

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In his book “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living”, Dale Carnegie teaches us how to handle stress and anxiety. He provides us with a variety of tools that can help us live a happier life. Carnegie reveals stories that disclose useful lessons and frameworks. Even though this book was put out in 1936, it is still relevant.

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Imagine someone informed you on Sunday night that you will be put in a torture room on Monday morning. What would your reaction be like? Would you be concerned? Probably, yes. This is a kind of situation that happened to Galen Litchfield in 1942 when he found out that a Japanese admiral had revealed the assets he had hidden from the Japanese while stranded in Japanese-occupied Shanghai. He was to be executed on Monday in the infamous Japanese secret police torture chamber. On Sunday, Litchfield learned the news and considered his options.

What are the possible solutions to such a situation? According to Columbia College Dean Herbert E. Hawkes, confusion is the main source of concern. He claims that when individuals are frightened, they rarely care to consider the details of their predicament. However, we can settle all issues by using a straightforward three-step approach. It is precisely what Litchfield used for his remedy.

So, find out the details of your concern first. Using a typewriter, Litchfield expressed his concern about being tortured to death the following morning. Next, examine those facts. Litchfield, for example, wrote, “What can I do about it?” following a list of his alternatives, including running away, defending himself, or pretending as if nothing had happened. Thirdly, decide what to do and stick to it. Litchfield concluded that his only choice was to carry on with business as usual. The Japanese admiral appeared to have cooled down since he just frowned at Litchfield. This is a good example that shows how thoroughly considering your concerns can occasionally save your life.

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Confusion breeds anxiety
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Choose today and act quickly
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Try to imagine the worst-case scenario if you are having a problem
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Act joyfully and think positively to make your life happier
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The best thing you can do is just be yourself and enjoy criticism
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You should take a break when needed
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Being organized can help you enjoy your work and reduce stress
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